references

Wouldn't it be nice if we could check references on anyone we wanted to? The other night at the restaurant, the gals & I were talking about customers, people, and life in general. We talked about how when something negative happens to someone, we tend to be compassionate, then forget and are rude to the next person who is being rude to us because they are having a bad day, or life. That attitude reflects, just like a mirror....happens everyday, everywhere.

I view people as complex individuals with different personalities, upbringing, and cultural backgrounds. If you are around people everyday, like I am in my working environment, it can be quite hectic at times. At those times, there are people who may have different situations going on with them or drama. They may target & channel their negativity at someone else. Either, they don't know any better, or they just don't care.

So, being kind is good karma....having tude is not attractive, think of how silly others sound or look! Oh, and keep in mind what I always say, as the quirky muse that I am...
~ Anyone you cross paths with could be a reference in your life.